School's Out . . .

Ever since I went back to work in 2000, school being out has been problematic. Who will look after Kimmie?

Leaving her with strangers, wondering if they will take her to the restroom, if they will make sure she eats, if they will keep her safe, if they will be nice to her, is extremely difficult. And on the other side is the concern about Kimmie. Will she be good, will she cooperate, or will she cause problems. I don't want her to make life difficult for the people around her.

We were able to keep her in school age (elementary age) programs until she was about 16, at which time she was "kicked out" for being too old. We have been fortunate to have Kimmie's brother, sister and grandparents to help out when we cannot find other care options, but they won't always be there to fall back on.

So, right now we are trying our second adult day program. (The first one we tried two summers ago. After 3 days they told us not to bring her back. They didn't have enough staff to adequately take care of her.) The verdict is still out on whether this second place will be a good spot for Kimmie. And, unfortunately, Kimmie is the one causing the problems.

--Mom